tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3150330670363169273.post8036848494915547059..comments2023-03-26T01:23:35.017-06:00Comments on Extreme Middle: Simply complicated.Extreme Middlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17665824400119790397noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3150330670363169273.post-30207813522718595122011-06-01T21:29:35.918-06:002011-06-01T21:29:35.918-06:00Moue, all I can say on that is a Buddhist saying a...Moue, all I can say on that is a Buddhist saying about worry. If you worry about something that you can't do anything about what does it change? If you worry about things you can change what does it do? The same goes for bitching. You do something about it, or you don't, but all bitching does is create things you don't need that makes it more complicated. It creates drama, and drama off the stage is rarely ever good. <br /><br />On the terms of selfish behavior, I am saying simply I am the center of my universe. You are the center of yours. If I take care of myself, I am in a better place to take care of those I love. I am not a burden on my wife because I own my own issues. <br /><br />Basically my whole message in life is simple. Get the fuck over yourself. In doing that you stop looking for attention. You stop needing people to make you feel better about yourself, and you can feel better about yourself because YOU feel better about yourself. <br /><br />People that say that can't do anything in life because they have kids are just bitching. They just can't do the irresponsible bullshit you did before kids, and whoa holy shit you have to stop being kid so you can raise yours? How about do something with your kids and raise them with a positive attitude. Do things with them that are different then you did before kids, that means you can still do shit, so no reason to bitch.Extreme Middlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17665824400119790397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3150330670363169273.post-63012475911348932842011-06-01T20:52:48.969-06:002011-06-01T20:52:48.969-06:00I found the post evocative and also that I was gri...I found the post evocative and also that I was grinning at the end of it because it's all basically true what you just put out there into the universe. Yep. <br /><br />My other question is though, what happens when you're so busy living for yourself -- that everyone else around you has to bend over backwards so that you can? When said person bitches and moans how they can't do anything in their life because they have kids, blah, blah wife, blah blah ...? Then what? Is that still attention getting? Or being given way to much fucking attention? <br /><br />If the latter, how do we go about breaking from the cycle of shitty-ness?Mouehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15145714514734693982noreply@blogger.com